Dear internet,
ISO cool female best friend character that enjoys hanging out a bit, can carry an intelligent conversation, digs motorcycles, has her own friends, likes my friends, gives me room to be me, has a job, isn’t an alcoholic, doesn’t want to be overromanced, and is a freak in the sack. That is all.
That moment when you realize you are into someone is kind of awesome. Unfortunately, this is always followed by that period of time when you try to figure out if they are also interested.
Two weeks ago, a girl messaged me on OKC. She’s intellegent, established, within 30 miles of me, and not hard on the eyes at all. We’ve been texting back and forth since then off and on. So far I’ve noticed a few things that I’m uneasy about. She’s not very responsive when I initiate conversation, but after a few to five days of dead air, she shoots me a “hey” or “how was your day” message. It’s hard to interpret. I don’t mind not being the leader. As an introvert, I need someone who is a little more extroverted than me to start things up sometimes. I’m kind of just “eh” with this so far. I just sent her a text asking her to tell me something more personal about herself because I feel like we’re just skimming the surface. I don’t mind if someone just wants a distant buddy, but I’d like to know that up front. We’ll see how that goes. I’m much better at getting to the bottom of things with real conversation. My voice is one of my better tools. I hate when I don’t get to use it.
I just really like food and orgasms
For the first time in many years, I’m alone. Sometimes it’s great. Sometimes it’s lonely. The bad thing about being lonely is that I can go to the bar, and everyone knows me. That’s not because I’m an alcoholic. It’s because I worked my way through high school and college there. The bad thing about that is that it’s easy to go to far when I’m there. I love that place. I love those people. I should probably find some new things to occupy my time though. I like myself too much to make that enough of a habit to let that lead to bad decisions.
why? just….why? i don’t understand why i continually get messages like this. why should i respond when you can’t even take the time to construct one measly paragraph? boys these days…. *sigh*
Girls do this too. I suspect this is why so many profiles have very specific requirements in the “You should contact me if” sections that easily can be interpreted as bitchy.
The last picture I got with Bubba. I’m gonna miss that little dude.
Here’s a picture of my beast. When I didn’t have him, I would ask people to send me pictures of their dogs
Thank you!
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